According to the Kohlberg theory, the post-conventional level is when a person develops social contract orientation and becomes principled. I believe I felt that I owed society an obligation to work and try to make it better, so I sought public welfare work (Fowler, p. 56).
Eventually, a better job opportunity came to me in the form of a state job in the Department of Youth and Family Services, so I decided to leave the school system. I transferred from my city job and was able work in my chosen field. Between working there and at Families Matter, New Jersey, I learned quite a bit. I would spend hours with parents who did not have the skills to help themselves and children who were in crisis. This motivated me even more to finish my bachelor's degree. This experience made me realize how lucky I was to have supportive family and friends, and the opportunities given to me.
The next big event in my life was when my father passed away (3 years ago) from lung cancer. We found out he was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer. My father was born on Christmas Eve and passed away on Easter, just like Jesus. My father's name was Jesus. His dying was hard on me. I had just gotten married the year before to my beautiful wife and a year later he died. I felt very depressed and took time off from work, but I took off a whole year from school, then started back.
I was following along with what Erik Erikson predicted for the years leading up to the age of 35. I was affiliating with my wife and family and felt love for my father when he passed away. However, I felt my work was very important to me and did not take off long from work.
I hope I pass through the next stages of life as I have passed through the first stages, learning and growing. From middle adulthood, 35 to 55 or 65, according to Erikson, humans are supposed to have ego development in the areas of generativity. Generativity, Self-absorption or Stagnation are the choices, according to Erik Erikson. I think I am developing generativity, or the ability to generate life and care for others. Work is important to us in middle age, work and family life.
Now that my wife and I have children I want to be just like my father, who was so close to my brother and me when we were small. I want my children to be proud of our race, as well, as I always have been, and maybe they can advance the status of Spanish-speaking people in the world and in the U.S. Cuban people are very proud, and that is why we are only one million strong; yet when it comes to political power and influence, we surpass other Hispanic races.
When I reach late adulthood, ages 55 or 65 to death, ego development outcome is supposed to reach Integrity or Despair, according to Erikson. Wisdom is one's strong point at this age, rather than physical or other kinds of strengths. Integrity is also a point of pride, as we have contributed a lot to life. The alternative is despair, and that means that one has not accomplished anything in life. I do not want to be afraid of death because I have not accomplished anything in life. Kohlberg says that one reaches a level of universal ethical principles, and has a "principled conscience." I suppose when I reach old age, I will have developed this ability to see the world and imagine being in anyone else's shoes. To act in every way as if one is doing the right thing must be wonderful indeed. I suppose one must have developed a great deal of confidence to feel this way (Fowler, p. 99).
In Urie Bronfenbrenner's ecological theory of development, he emphasized that the developing person is embedded in a series of environmental systems that interact with one another and with the individual to influence development. There are many ways I am able to connect this theory with my own life, my...
Death anxiety was given a broad definition and seemed to point to how one dealt with the death of others also. I found that I did not deal with death very well. Mainly because I was not able to know my real father, and I felt betrayed by the man who was my actual father when I had to experience the abuse that my family went through. It was
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