Love is a personal issue that attracts public debate with each person giving it their own approach as understood or experienced in the past. The two stories herein look into people in search of love and another set, a group of people trying to understand the love they have experienced in the past. There are depiction of people trying to get into terms with what love is and trying to experience it at their best.
There is no universal definition of love or a universal way of experiencing love within the society or a place where love can best be experienced on the face of the earth.
Love in L.A
The short story is presented in a fast paced speed with events unfolding fast and close to each other. It revolves around Jake driving an old car on the free way with the traffic congestion not making things any easy for him. He was in a terrible state financially and was preoccupied with how life can be good if there were a few provisions added to what he has. He was in reveries over living an exotic lifestyle and this distracted him from concentration on the road with unpleasant results for him. Things quickly move from good memories to terrible realities as he rams into the new Toyota in front of him and leaves a dent on rear and a broken tail-light even after great efforts to swerve of and avoid hitting him from the rear. It is at this point that Jake tries to play out his charming self to convince the lady owner of the Toyota car that he hit to forgive him to no avail. He quickly scales up the conversation and feigns a celebrity status as an actor and musician to win over the lady, Mariana, into forgiving him yet Mariana cannot have any of these. The lies balloon when Mariana insists on having Jake's details and Jake has now to gibe false address, wrong telephone number and even a fake plate number. Deep within him he feels sorry for the lady that he ahs to lie to her about such details and indeed he even never had a legitimate insurance but nevertheless provided an insurance name. As they prepare to drive apart having exchanged personal details and agreeing to report the issue to the insurance instead of settling it between themselves, Mariana notes down the registration plate number of Jake's car, which too comes to unfold to the reader that is an invalid plate number that was yanked from another car and pinned up on the car Jake was driving just for convenience. What counts to Jake is the ending where the lady agreed to give him the phone number and actually asked Jake to call her, Mariana had fallen in love. Jake sinks into his car seat and feels duality of feeling; sad that he had to give so much false information on an innocent lady, and proud that he at last managed to win the love of the beautiful lady he bumped into by accident, literally. The reader is also left with mixed emotions and moods of a fast paced narrative that tends to exhibit Jake as a con artists who is sly in action and slippery in words, but again tends to persuade the reader to empathize with the situation Jake was in, indeed with his current state, most likely broke and jobless, there was little chance that he would be able to fix the car even if he gave honest details, a case of necessary evil (Gild D., 1950).
What We Talk about When We Talk about Love
This is a short story that revolves around very minimal action but a lot of discussion within a sitting among four friends, indeed two sets of couples who had decided to spend time together one afternoon. Mel and Terri who was the wife had invited narrator of the story, Nick and Laura who was the wife. The story is presented through a first person narration where the persona or the narrator presents the reader with events and conversations that were going on around Mel's kitchen table where the four of them were seated taking gin and passing time as they discussed issues to do with love. Though the narrator is used by the writer to present the story, he takes a highly docile role as a narrator and instead allows Mel, who was a heart surgeon and the host to do most of the talking around the table on matters...
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