¶ … 2003) Men and women: Becoming together. Intimate Partners. (pp. 389-397).
This article stated that gender is ultimately a mystery that cannot be solved scientifically. Men and women can, however, come together in love and sex. Love increases this mystery.
Although gender is not a science, we can see obvious differences in gender. Thus results love between men and women.
Lewis, C.S. (1988) The four loves. Retrieved from http://duquesne.docutek.com/eres
/download.aspx?docID=12758&shortname=lewis.PDF
This article spoke of need-love and gift-love. Gift-love is what moves people to work and plan for the future of their children. Need-love is what drives a child to run to his or her mother. Need-love is necessary for forgiveness.
It is obvious that need-love is necessary for a relationship, but perhaps the best relationships integrate gift-love as well.
The National Marriage Project. (2009, February) The state of our unions 2008: The social health of marriage in America. Retrieved from http://www.virginia.edu/marriageproject
/pdfs/2008update.pdf
This article displayed several graphs to present information. A significant trend of not getting married has been occurring over the past several decades (p. 4). Nearly 40% of those women who are married do not report that they are happy in their marriages (p. 5). Interestingly, divorces peaked around 1980 at almost 23%, fell slightly over the next fifteen years, and then began to climb again (p. 6).
Clearly, it is important to consider whether or not you will be happy in a marriage before you get married. As more and more women report not being happy, divorce rates have begun to rise. Many people tend to marry because of societal pressures (such as that of getting married due to a pregnancy). I do not feel that one should marry because others think they should. One should marry for one's own reasons, and each individual should make his or her marriage work in whatever way he or she can.
The National Marriage Project. (2004, June) The state of our unions 2004: The social health of marriage in America. Retrieved http://duquesne.docutek.com/eres
/download.aspx?docID=4307&shortname=soou2004_1.pdf
Though this article presents many of the same findings as "The State of Our Unions" articles have in the past, there was quite interesting information presented about children. This article concluded that with the decline in the number of children, it is possible that our nation has moved from being child centered, thus resulting in the institutions of marriage weakening (p. 21). They also found that a much higher percentage of children are coming from "fragile" homes, such as those without fathers (p. 24). Further study presented teenage attitudes about marriage. Many teens express that they want to have a good family life within a marriage, though they tend to accept alternatives to marriage, such as pregnancy out of marriage (p. 26).
Our society is changing, and so are the attitudes and beliefs of our future generations. People still want to hang on to the vision of a "perfect" marriage, but they are becoming more accepting of alternative lifestyles.
The National Marriage Project. (2000, June) The state of our unions 2000: The social health of marriage in America. Retrieved http://duquesne.docutek.com/eres/download.aspx?docID
=4329&shortname=nmpar2000_1.pdf
There were many trends that this article presented. However, it seemed to focus on just a few. Cohabitation before marriage seems to be on the rise (p. 12). Men and women today are looking for compatibility with a mate before they marry (p. 7). Many individuals, however, are focused on a sex-only, no expectations relationship, versus the traditional definition of a relationship (p. 11).
The roles of men and women are changing when it comes to defining a relationship. I feel that you must marry someone you are very compatible with in order to have a successful marriage. Some people just aren't made to be married. Perhaps it is these individuals who are engaging in sex-only interactions.
Popenoe, David. (2004) Top ten myths of divorce. Retrieved from http://duquesne.docutek.com
/eres/download.aspx?docID=4304&shortname=myths_of_divorce_1.htm
This article summarizes the top ten myths of divorce. Women and children tend to suffer, due to gender gaps and having a fatherless home. Even if parents do not get along, a longitudinal study has suggested that not divorcing actually may be better for the children.
This article makes it quite clear that many myths of divorce have been believed by many over the years. In fact, I found several of the myths I had previously believed.
Wilcox, W.B. (2009) The evolution of divorce....
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