Forgiveness and Personality
The impact that personality has on the ability to forgive has been a topic of much debate for many years. Many experts believe that certain personality traits can make an individual more susceptible to forgiveness. The purpose of this discussion is to examine whether or not any personality seems to be more forgiving of self and others than other personalities. The investigation will also explore the type of research that has been done and what is currently being studied in this subject area. We will begin our discussion with a brief summary concerning the importance and definition of forgiveness.
Importance of Forgiveness
According to the Journal of Mental Health Counseling, Forgiveness plays an important role in ensuring the mental stability of individuals. The journal reports that people that practice forgivenss are able to improve their well being and have more meaningful interpersonal relationships. Much of the scientific literature pertaining to…...
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Expressions of the ord living with us, such as that in Luke 23: 34 nourish one's spirit. Jesus' prayer for forgiveness for those who crucified Him mirrors sustenance that fuels healing and love. In His death, Jesus models the way God does things; the way He shows his love; His forgiveness. Grace, God's unmerited favor, extends not only to those who crucified Him centuries ago; it forgives those today who, in spite of their utter unworthiness - trust Him, God's grace and mercy came through Jesus Christ at Calvary, where He prayed the prayer that echoes its power throughout eternity: "…Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do…" (Luke 23:34a). This prayer, as the researcher asserted at the start of this paper, serves as the ultimate example of forgiveness, as it portrays God's love, inherent in forgiveness, as serves as a guide for those who follow Christ…...
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There are situations where the individual does not feel forgiving at any level and where the only real result of any decision or process would lead only to repression of true feelings.
Instead of the author's formulation, I would propose that, subject only to the requirement that the individual actually has a genuine desire to forgive, the road to forgiveness can be through a decision, or through a process, or through a combination of both. It might also be preferable to consider the principal conceptual distinction as being between whether or not the individual can get past the anger instead of whether or not the individual can forgive the person responsible for it. It seems that the author believes that forgiveness is always possible with the right approach. I would argue that (genuine) forgiveness is not necessarily always possible, regardless of what approach is used. In my opinion, forgiveness is…...
In your own words, explain the concept of mediation and demonstrate the role a mediator plays in conflict management. In the given scenario above, evaluate and discuss whether a third party should intervene. Explain your response.
Mediation calls for an objective third party to provide a reasonable perspective, a controlling influence and a sense of compromise to an otherwise rancorous situation. ith respect to conflict management, it is incumbent upon the mediator to help conflicting parties come to some level of mutual understanding as well as to arm them with the tools to independently manage conflict more effectively in the future. Certainly, this is a role which would be most welcome in the conflict between Leanne and her mother. Leanne's older sister appears most suited to serve as a conflict mediator here and, in fact, both Leanne and the mother are prone to seeking her ear when venting about one another.
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Abigail, R.A. & Cahn, D.D. (2011). Managing Conflict Through Communication, 4th Edition. Pearson.
Forgiveness: A perception and motivation study among married adults, Orathinkal, Vanseenwegen and Burggraeve (2008) explore the manifestation and effects of forgiveness in intimate relationships. The paper begins by stressing recent interest among mental health experts in forgiveness. A discussion of related terms such as reconciliation, excuse and exoneration follows. The focus of the paper is on forgiveness for "interpersonal violations" such as physical attack, infidelity and incest. esearch supports that forgiveness leads to marital longevity, closure in episodes of interpersonal violations and helps in relieving stress and self-esteem issues. The study aims to discover perceptions of forgiveness (measured on the Forgiveness Perception and Motivation Checklist) among married adults and whether their perceptions are related to behavior (measured on the Enright Forgiveness Inventory). Differences in the perceptions of forgiveness between first-married (those currently in their first marriage) and remarried (after divorce or separation) adults, and between men and women are…...
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Orathinkal, J., Vanseenwegen, A., & Burggraeve, R. (2008). Forgiveness: A perception and motivation study among married adults. Scandinavian journal of psychology, 49, 155-160. Doi: 10.1111/j.1467-9450.2007.00605.x
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169). Therefore, given the tight-knit quality of most marital relationships, anything short of absolute forgiveness will inevitably result in harbored resentment, anger and hostility. Some types of offenses are not easily forgiven, of course, and marital infidelity certainly ranks among them, but negative reactions in response to even the most egregious offenses can be forgiven if certain conditions are satisfied. For example, Welton and his associates cite the need for empathy in resolving marital conflicts and report that an individual's level of empathy is a predictor of their ability to forgive. Another attribute, "perspective taking," is similar to empathy but differs in that, "Perspective taking is a cognitive process that involves the imaginative ability to put one's self in the place of another," an attribute that "has long been viewed as critical for effective social interaction" (Welton et al., 2008, p. 169).
Irrespective of their current status, Welton et al.…...
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Welton, G.L., Hill, P.C. & Seybold, K.S. (2008, Summer). Forgiveness in the trenches:
Empathy, perspective taking, and anger. Journal of Psychology and Christianity, 27(2),
168-171
These researchers examined the notion of forgiveness in formal therapy in the article entitled, "Positive esponses to Benefit and Harm: Bringing Forgiveness and Gratitude into Cognitive Psychotherapy." I found this article particularly compelling because it demonstrated how scientists and shrinks were turning with more attention to the powerful process of forgiveness and using it in clinical settings and encouraging their patients to use it. For example, "Forgiveness and gratitude represent positive psychological responses to interpersonal harms and benefits that individuals have experienced. In the present article we first provide a brief review of the research that has shown forgiveness and gratitude to be related to various measures of physical and psychological well-being" (Bono et al., 2006). I found it interesting, as forgiveness is something that I mostly view as coming from a strictly religious place. ather, after reading this article, I see that forgiveness comes from a place of…...
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Bono, G., & McCullough, M. (2006). Positive Responses to Benefit and Harm: Bringing Forgiveness and Gratitude Into Cognitive Psychotherapy. Journal of Cognitive Psychotherapy,, 147-158.
Exline, J., Yali, a., & Lobel, M. (1999). When God Disappoints. Journal of Health Psychology, 365-379.
Fitzgibbons, R., Enright, R., & O'Brien, T. (2004). Learning to Forgive. American School Board Journal, 1-5.
McCullough, M., Worthington, E., & Rachal, K. (1997). Interpersonal Forgiving in Close Relationships. Journal of fersonality and Social Psychology, 321-336.
Theology and Spirituality in Counseling
Intervention Studies on Forgiveness
The article Intervention studies on forgiveness: A meta-analysis, addresses the idea of forgiveness from a counseling perspective. Three different types of categories were considered by the authors. These were decision-based interventions, along with two types of process-based interventions. One of those was individual and the other was with groups. There were nine published studies used to gather the data for the article, which equated to 330 participants' information being collected and analyzed. Theories of forgiveness were also reviewed, in an effort to examine why people choose to forgive or not forgive, and how that forgiveness may or may not play into their faith and other types of beliefs. The groups that were studied also included a control group, in order to ensure that the information drawn from the study was truly applicable to more than just the study participants.
The study looked at forgiveness,…...
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Baskin, T.W. & Enright, R.D. (2004). Intervention studies on forgiveness: A meta-analysis. Journal of Counseling and Development, 82: 79-90.
forgiveness on human health. In its simplest form, the purpose of the study is to evaluate human psychological stress that might constitute a risk factor for heart disease. Further, the study will also evaluate the impact of forgiveness on heart disease. However, such a simple dissertation clearly demands further definition. What, exactly, do we signify when we speak of heart disease? What is properly considered as forgiveness? What impact does forgiveness has on human psychology? What is psychological and psychosocial aspects of the heart disease, as well as, is there a dependable relationship amid forgiveness and heart disease? Finally, a myriad of questions may be asked about the pathophysiological mechanisms that mediate the relationship between acts of forgiveness and its presumed endpoint, whether it slows down the progression of heart disease or recuperates from the heart attack.
The following thesis has taken assistance from leading scholarly sources in the field, as…...
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A study conducted by Gambarao in 2002 was conducted "to effect emotional regulation with children," (Knutson 2008:195). Enright's model of forgiveness was found to be incredibly successful in helping children forgive their injurers and move past the harmful injury which could have previous caused them to harbor resentment and affect their adult lives.
However, children are not the only population to have been studied within the context of Enright's forgiveness process model. One of the many empirical studies to use Enright's model was that of Waltman's 2002 study which focused primarily on older adults. Waltman focused on adults who were of middle age or older in order to facilitate real and true forgiveness within adults who were nearing the end of their lives as a way to improve the quality of that remaining existence. This study incorporated forgiveness for a number of assaults which had caused the injured parties to…...
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Bachman, Guy Foster & Guerro, Laura K. (2006). Forgiveness, apology, and communicative responses to hurtful events. Communication Reports. 19(1):45-63.
Cossman, Brenda. (2006). The new politics of adultery. Colombia Journal of Gender and Law. 15(1):274-297.
Enright, Robert & Reed, Gayle. (2009). Process model. About Forgiveness. Forgiveness Institute. Retrieved 29 Sep 2009 at http://www.forgiveness-institute.org/html/process_model.htm
Farley, Reynolds & Haaga, John. (2000). The American People: Census 2000. Russell Sage Foundation.
The articles point out the need for additional research into the field of forgiveness. Only recently have researchers begun to explore the psychological constructs that contribute to forgiveness.
Much of the research that has been conducted has consisted of relatively small and homogenous population samples, as evidenced from the research conducted above. Each of these articles includes a rather small sample sizes. Hence all of the articles are weak in that they are not generalizable to the population at large. Most of the articles however are strong in that they incorporate quantitative and qualitative analysis of the phenomena of forgiveness and take an empirical approach toward investigating the phenomena of forgiveness.
In the future subsequent reviews should focus on the phenomena of forgiveness using a larger population sample base that includes individuals from varying demographic backgrounds. This will help clarify the research that currently exists on the subject of forgiveness.
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Chernoff, M., Deveney, S. & Konstam, V. (2001). "Toward forgiveness: the role of shame, guilt, anger and empathy." Counseling and Values, 46(1): 26.
Gorsuch, R.L. & Walker, D.F. (2004). Dimensions underlying sixteen models of forgiveness and reconciliation." Journal of Psychology and Theology, 32(1): 12.
Holmes, W., Konstam, V. & Levine, B. (2003). "Empathy, selfism, and coping as elements of the psychology of forgiveness: A preliminary study." Counseling and Values, 47(3): 172.
Kanz, J.E. (2000). "How do people conceptualize and use forgiveness? The forgiveness attitudes questionnaire." Counseling and Values, 44(3): 174.
Church as a Forgiving Community
One Page Summary
The article by Magnuson and Enright points out that "empirical studies" have proven that when a person is forgiven, or honestly seeks forgiveness, this act helps that person's self-esteem and decreases depression, anger, and anxiety. The article goes on to review the history of forgiveness in religion, and it illustrates the benefits of one person forgiving another person. On page 115 the authors are talking about an intervention that is also called restorative justice, where the offender and the victim come together and the offender is able to see and hear how the other was hurt. This is a wonderful model to follow, but the authors understand that if you don't teach children the value of forgiveness, a whole generation of people will not follow this path.
Forgiveness is not going to work until the individual reduced the anger and has "committed to forgive"…...
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Magnuson, C.M., and Enright, R.D. (2008). The Church as Forgiving Community: An Initial
Model. Journal of Psychology and Theology, 36(2), 114-123.
Sunflower: On the Possibilities and Limits of Forgiveness
Even thought it sounds somewhat like a cliche, it is also true that suffering is part of human life. For some, however, suffering is so extreme that little sense can be attached to it, especially while suffering is ongoing. One example of such extreme suffering is that of the Jews at the hands of the Nazi's during World War II. Much has been written and said in response to these events by both Jews and non-Jews. One of the most compelling reflections on the events is Simon Wiesenthal's The Sunflower: On the Possibilities and Limits of Forgiveness. The focus point of this book is an event during the author's stay in a Nazi concentration camp. On his way to a work detail, he is taken from the ranks to hear the confession of a dying Nazi soldier. At the end of the narrative,…...
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Wiesenthal, Simon, The Sunflower: On the Possibilities and Limits of Forgiveness, Schocken Books, 1998
Fathers, Son, and Spiritual Doubles:
The relationship of John Ames and Jack Boughton in Marilynne Robinson's novel Gilead
As John Ames, the protagonist of Marilynne Robinson's epistolary novel Gilead, struggles to come to terms with his life, he frequently reflects upon the troubled relationship he had with his close friend and fellow clergy member Rev. Boughton. Ames' first wife died in childbirth and Ames feels a sense of jealousy and sublimated anger towards Jack, Boughton's son and Ames' namesake (Boughton's son has the full name of John Ames "Jack" Boughton). The novel's chronicle of Ames' personal history keeps returning to Boughton until it concludes with Ames finally forgiving Jack, the only man in his life he ever really detested. Robinson said of her novel's religious themes: "The first obligation of religion is to maintain the sense of the value of human beings. If you had to summarize the Old Testament, the summary…...
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Fay, Sarah. "Marilynne Robinson, The Art of Fiction No. 198." The Paris Review, 186 (2008).
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McGrew, Lydia. "The Challenge of Forgiveness in Robinson's Gilead." Christendom Review,
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Procrastination
Ferrari, et.al. looked at procrastination on academic tasks by college students, comparing students who attended selective colleges with students who attended nonselective colleges. They found that students in both groups procrastinated but for different reasons. At the selective college, procrastination was tied to dislike for the task. At the nonselective college, students worried about not doing a good job on the assignment and about possible social disapproval. One interesting finding was that the students' definitions of what procrastination varied by school. Students at the more selective college more often described themselves as procrastinators than the students at the non-selective school. The writers speculated that students at the more challenging school might be more likely to start on assignments immediately, and view any delay at all as "procrastination." They suspected that students at the more selective school had a stronger school work ethic.
The authors clearly defined that they were going to…...
mlaMany questions remain, not surprising in an area that has not yet thoroughly been researched. The rate of procrastination might be compared to GPA, or as suggested earlier, rates of Incompletes on transcripts as well as either graduating on time or the need to attend summer school to graduate on time. Both issues would have very significant financial repercussions for students, who would have to pay extra tuition in order to graduate. As the authors note, it would be interesting to see whether students who work more hours at outside jobs see themselves as procrastinators or simply as people who just don't have enough time to get everything done they need to do.
Eventually, researchers might consider exploring procrastination in relation to other behaviors that can interfere with school success, such as giving too much time to social life or to weekends that include alcohol or drugs. The results from such information could be quite useful to college students and those who may help them pay for their college educations. When student has to attend school for an extra semester or year it becomes markedly expensive in two ways: first, that student has to pay for another year of room, board, tuition, books, supplies and other expenses; and second, it delays the student's entrance into the college-graduate workforce by one year. If the student eventually would end up in a job paying, say, $40,000 per year, that's an additional $40,000 financial loss.
Ferrari, Joseph R., Sabrina M. Keane, Raymond N. Wolfe, and Brett L. Beck. 1998. "The antecedents and Consequences of Academic Excuse-Making. Research in Higher Education 30:2, 199-213.
We are starting with the assumption that the two movies in your assignment are A Twist of Faith and Never Heard. We cannot locate a movie called Never Hear, but Never Heard is a popular movie for pastoral or theological classes because it explores the role that faith plays in redemption set against the backdrop of some pretty significant criminal activity. We are proceeding as if that is the movie being discussed.
Both of the movies focus on crimes, specifically on the crime of murder. In one movie, the main character is accused of murder, though he claims....
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Certainly! Here are some essay topics related to The Crucible:
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2. Explore the theme of reputation in The Crucible.
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4. How does Arthur Miller use historical events and characters in The Crucible to comment on the McCarthy era?
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