Death and Dying Heard the Owl Call My Name
The first dilemma in Margaret Craven's I heard the owl call my name arises within the clergy community, as a Bishop debates whether or not to tell his young Anglican missionary that the missionary only has "a little less than two years if he's lucky" (11). For some people, living out the last two years of a life in remote Indian villages in pristine, pastoral Canada would be the best way to "go out." But no matter; it's not an easy task to inform a relatively young man, no matter how much he loves the rich outdoor environment, that he's about to die.
What is presented to the reader is the conflict the Bishop faces, as to how and when to tell the young missionary (vicar) that he will die. When is the right time to tell anyone - whether in a religious genre, as this is, or an Indian genre - that he or she is going to die, and the timing is not certain?
Meanwhile, on page 14, readers begin to get a dose of death discussion. Caleb, the old man who was a mentor to the missionary, though not given to much conversation except nautical information, "dropped what surely could not, yet must be, godly counsel."
When you bury anybody, remember to look in the box the very last minute," said Caleb. "Forty years ago up at Fort Rupert I buried the wrong man, and even now the RCMP has not forgotten it."
This could be thought of as "foreshadowing" in the story, but in any event, it certainly sets the tone, or adds to the tone of death and dying, which, on page 17, continues: "Beyond the village, inches above the high tide mark, Mark saw two carved killer whales, topped by a full moon. 'It's only the grave of Johnny Ray who was drowned'...'When you come here to marry, to bury, to hold church in the school house, they will say to you, 'Johnny's hiding in the bush, and he steals things and scares our women'." So we know the Canadian Indians say a grave indicates that someone is "hiding in the bush."
Readers also know just how "rough and tumble" and backwoods this setting is, when I page 19, a good description is given of the hang-logger "Calamity Bill" (the opposite of Broadway's "Calamity Jane"?). Because his float is subject to its nails coming loose when boats pass to fast and create wakes to rough, he is known to come out of his A-Frame "shaking his fist and swearing" - but the most interesting and raw rural aspect of Calamity Bill is the fact that the inner of his two sets of long-legged underwear is "part of his skin." The putrid smell of rancid underwear just might be close to the smell of death itself, although the author may not have intended for that linkage.
Also on page 19, some interesting irony is presented, as the young vicar, Mark Brian, says to himself, "If man were to vanish from this planet tomorrow, here he would leave no trace that he ever was." He himself will "vanish" from the planet, but as to when he will indeed vanish, that remains a mystery.
"professional mourner" is introduced to readers on page 26 - an old Indian woman, one of three, who "wail" day and night when someone dies. This book is more than an interesting and dramatic story - it is something of a natural history book, giving readers a lot of information about how Indians in Canada live and what they believe in. In this case, a young boy had drowned, and his body was covered with a plastic sheet. The children who found the boy floating (and drowned), "thought he was a doll," which is a very sweet little image juxtaposed with the fact of death.
When Constable Pearson arrives (29) and sees the body, Mark says "it's a little late" for an autopsy, which certainly implies that the Indians have done some lancing or cutting on the corpse. It is so horrible, that the constable "bolted from the room...into the brush where he was very sick." This made the Indians laugh, though in Mark's memory of his first burial the tribe "all looked alike" and the woods were "brooding" - juxtaposition to Indians laughing over a sick constable.
This laughter and the depiction of the constable in a white shirt, tie, and a head like an ancient Roman bust, gives the reader a sharp contrast for the ways...
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