Romeo and Juliet: Love or Infatuation?
William Shakespeare's play "Romeo and Juliet," contains some of the most quoted lines in literature. It is the ultimate love story, the epitome of romance. However, this is not a story of deep bonded love, but rather one of deep infatuation. This is actually a story of puppy love carried to the extreme. One gets the impression that had these two, Romeo and Juliet, lived another week or even another day, they would have become infatuated with someone else, particularly Romeo, and been expressing undying devotion to a new face by the next phase of the moon.
Juliet has "not seen the change of fourteen years," and thus, her suitor, Paris, is advised to "let two more summers wither in their pride, ere we may think her ripe to be a bride."
Therefore, Juliet cannot be any older than thirteen years. She is basically still a child. It makes one shudder to think of a thirteen-year-old even being courted, much less married. Thirteen-year-old girls are impressionable, to say the least. They cherish teen idols, which is what Romeo represents. He is just enough older than Juliet for her to be drawn to him, like any young girl is drawn or infatuated with an older boy. For example, a middle-school girl would be on cloud nine if a high-school boy paid attention to her, and if he made advances towards...
This model is no longer generally held to be a valid one. While attachment style is still considered to be important, human motivation and behavior are considered to be sufficiently flexible that no one style of interpersonal relationship will endure over the lifespan. When Parents Say No Driscoll, Davis, & Lipetz (1972) looked not to Othello but to Romeo and Juliet. They argue that the network of relationships in which a couple
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