¶ … Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock by T.S. Eliot. Specifically it will give a character sketch of J. Alfred Prufrock. The main character of this poem, J. Alfred Prufrock, is a middle-aged, timid man, afraid to confront the women he passes during an evening walk, which indicates he is a lonely, alienated man, too.
Prufrock is middle-aged and balding, as the poem notes, "With a bald spot in the middle of my hair -- / [They will say: 'How his hair is growing thin!'] " (Eliot 40-41). He is thin, (Eliot 42), timid, (he turns back rather than confront the women he sees), and he has had a chance not to be lonely. Eliot notes, "And I have known the arms already, known them all -- / Arms that are braceleted and white and bare / [but in the lamplight, downed with light brown hair!]" (Eliot 62-64). Thus, he has known women, but he admits he has never had the courage to propose to one, "Should I, after tea and cakes and ices, / Have the strength to force the moment to its crisis?" (Eliot 79-80). Ultimately, as his dialogue continues, it becomes clear that Prufrock is afraid. He is afraid of growing old, of ending up alone, and of being ridiculous and a fool because he did not to back to the woman he loved and make the relationship right. Eliot writes, "At times, indeed, almost ridiculous -- / Almost, at times, the Fool" (Eliot 118-119). Prufrock then is a sad and lonely character who is sympathetic to the reader because he is so pathetic and hopeless.
In conclusion, this poem is not a "love song" at all, it is the story of a lonely, middle-aged man who regrets the choices he has made in life and sees no way to reconcile them. He is afraid he will die alone and unloved, and that is probably the truth. He is sad because he is clearly so unhappy, but he is also pathetic because he will not change his view or his situation.
References
Eliot. T.S. "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock." Bartleby.com. 2008. 11 Dec. 2008. http://www.bartleby.com/198/1.html
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