In this case, each chapter highlights the significance of each habit. Below, I briefly highlight each of the seven 'habits' which are amongst the basic concepts the book concerns itself with.
The first habit Covey talks about in this case is being proactive. This habit underscores the importance of acting on the basis of principles as opposed to circumstance or emotion. Indeed, based on its insistence on the ability of individuals to make choices, this first habit is seen as the foundation of the other habits. The second habit the author highlights in the text is the need to begin with a clear end in mind. In this case, Covey is of the opinion that each family should have a clear vision of what it is all about. To achieve this, the author recommends the formulation of a family mission statement. Here, the family first needs to determine where it wants to be in say five years and then based on this; principles to help it get there can be easily identified.
The third habit identified by the author concerns itself with putting first things first. Essentially, the habit does not only help the reader identify the "first things" in a familial setting but it also helps such a reader to have the commitment and discipline necessary for the accomplishment of the same. Fourth, we have habit number four which the author dubs "win-win." At this point, it should be noted that in a way, the three habits including habit 4, 5 and 6 are intertwined. Considered the root in this case, habit four essentially concerns itself with the search for mutual benefit. It is this mutual benefit that natures synergy and understanding.
Next, we have the fifth habit which proposes that one should first seek to understand others before seeking to be understood. This...
A key tenet of this habit remains that as individuals, we all interpret events differently. With mutual respect for each other's view at the familial level, pre-judgment can be avoided. The sixth habit concerns itself with the need to synergize. In a way, this habit can be looked at as a way of aiding the development of genuine family interdependence. By synergizing, a family has more to gain. As it is often said, when it comes to synergy, one plus one adds up to three and not two. Lastly, we have the seventh habit. This habit which is dubbed "sharpen the saw" proposes that if something is neglected or left alone for a while, it could end up reaching its most elementary form through gradual disintegration. Thus if a family is not attended to appropriately, chances of it deteriorating and becoming disorderly become quite high. To avoid such a situation, Covey proposes regular family dinners, vacations or fun days.
In conclusion, it can be noted that in a way, Covey's book can be described as being thought provoking based on its theme and timeless concepts which have practical application in most family settings. The examples the author incorporates in the book in addition to making it an easy read also give it a more realistic feel. With his wonderful story-telling abilities, Covey further enhances the relevance of the book by incorporating his own experiences with his family. Therefore, for any family seeking to build or develop a wonderful or a beautiful family culture (a key theme of the text), The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families is a nice read.
Works Cited
Covey, Stephen R. The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Families. Golden Books, 1997. Print.
