If humans are not the architects of good and evil, then, it is easy to see how a human cannot be wholly good or wholly evil. An architect may be trying to emulate the style of Frank Lloyd Wright, but his or her work will, ultimately, be different from Wright's in some ways. The emulating architect will create some aspects of his or her building that are entirely his or her own. In the same way, a person may be emulating the metaphysical creator of good or evil, but he or she will be flawed in some ways, meaning that he or she is not wholly evil or wholly good. Edgar Allen Poe gives a good example of this in his story "The Black Cat." While the main character commits atrocities to his cat, Pluto, readers are able to find a glimmer of good through his actions before he commits his atrocities. The narrator says, "From my infancy I was noted for the docility and humanity of my disposition" (Poe 597). Thus, while he eventually does evil acts, the narrator is not wholly evil; for at one point in his life, he was good.
The fact that humans cannot be wholly good or wholly evil directly corresponds to the question of forgiveness. Some are of the opinion that certain acts are inexcusable, and cannot be forgiven. Although Govier presents this argument, along with others, in her essay "Forgiveness and the Unforgivable," she also makes the following statement: "To forgive is not to renounce the moral judgment that an action is wrong, because it is only wrong actions that need to be forgiven. Nor is forgiving the same as excusing or condoning. When we forgive, we assume that there is something to forgive - a wrong action for which the offender was responsible. Nor is forgiveness incompatible with punishment" (59-60). Just as the statement regarding evil encompassed the modern conception of evil, Govier's statment provides a rebuttal to the modern misconceptions regarding forgiveness. What this statement suggests is that is always possible to forgive, no matter the state of...
Forgiveness and Personality The impact that personality has on the ability to forgive has been a topic of much debate for many years. Many experts believe that certain personality traits can make an individual more susceptible to forgiveness. The purpose of this discussion is to examine whether or not any personality seems to be more forgiving of self and others than other personalities. The investigation will also explore the type of
Expressions of the Word living with us, such as that in Luke 23: 34 nourish one's spirit. Jesus' prayer for forgiveness for those who crucified Him mirrors sustenance that fuels healing and love. In His death, Jesus models the way God does things; the way He shows his love; His forgiveness. Grace, God's unmerited favor, extends not only to those who crucified Him centuries ago; it forgives those today
There are situations where the individual does not feel forgiving at any level and where the only real result of any decision or process would lead only to repression of true feelings. Instead of the author's formulation, I would propose that, subject only to the requirement that the individual actually has a genuine desire to forgive, the road to forgiveness can be through a decision, or through a process, or
In your own words, explain the concept of mediation and demonstrate the role a mediator plays in conflict management. In the given scenario above, evaluate and discuss whether a third party should intervene. Explain your response. Mediation calls for an objective third party to provide a reasonable perspective, a controlling influence and a sense of compromise to an otherwise rancorous situation. With respect to conflict management, it is incumbent upon the
Forgiveness: A perception and motivation study among married adults, Orathinkal, Vanseenwegen and Burggraeve (2008) explore the manifestation and effects of forgiveness in intimate relationships. The paper begins by stressing recent interest among mental health experts in forgiveness. A discussion of related terms such as reconciliation, excuse and exoneration follows. The focus of the paper is on forgiveness for "interpersonal violations" such as physical attack, infidelity and incest. Research supports
169). Therefore, given the tight-knit quality of most marital relationships, anything short of absolute forgiveness will inevitably result in harbored resentment, anger and hostility. Some types of offenses are not easily forgiven, of course, and marital infidelity certainly ranks among them, but negative reactions in response to even the most egregious offenses can be forgiven if certain conditions are satisfied. For example, Welton and his associates cite the need
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